This is the record of an apple - a Washington girl - and a peach - a Georgia boy. Here you'll read of our daily events and watch us journey through life together. Thanks for reading!
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Monday, June 24, 2013

When Disaster Strikes...

My goodness what a week it has been! There are so many happy things going on in our life! But today, I don't want to focus on me or Dalin, what we're doing with work, our projects.. nothing like that.

Today, I want to talk about what you do when disaster strikes. Now I'm not talking about an earthquake or a tsunami, I'm talking about that news you get and it makes your heart sink into your stomach.

This past week and a half has been a hard one for some of my friends. One had a baby a little too soon and he's having health problems.

Another's little brother passed away...

One was diagnosed with stage three cancer..

Another's Mom was diagnosed with MS...

And the list goes on.

What I have been SO amazed with is their faith in God. No one is angry, and all of them are really positive about their situations.

Can you imagine how one would normally respond to any of these situations?!

Each of them has been an example to me that in order to survive disaster, you must have the right tools and the tool they rely on is God and His Word, specifically, The Book of Mormon.

My heart has been in such agony for all of my friends because I can only IMAGINE what it might be like to go through what they're going through.

Their faith gives me strength.

It doesn't matter anymore if the dishes aren't done, or if the laundry is overtaking the bathroom, or if the bed isn't made.

Those aren't disaster's to me anymore...


Tuesday, May 21, 2013

Oh The Insanity!

So some of  you know that I've been doing the workout program called Insanity by Beach Body.

First of all, let me just say thank you to all my friends and family that are supporting me through this incredibly ridiculous workout plan.

Insanity is circuit training, meaning the workouts progressively get harder not only as you go through the exercise plan, but also through each individual workout!

Usually by the time Shawn T. says we're done, I'm laying on the ground trying to find my life or trying to jug down some water with wobbly legs.

When I first started Insanity, I thought there was no way I would be able to even do it! In fact, I remember telling my coach that I was scared to open the DVD's.. and I didn't for about a week.

But then, I realized that I wanted to live a long life, and I wanted to be healthy... so I made a list of 50 reasons why I'm doing Insanity. When I'm not wanting to workout because I'm dead tired from working and taking care of the house, those reasons motivate me to dig deeper and push through.

I'm now at the beginning of my week 5, which is called Recovery Week. During this week, all the exercises are concentrated on core cardio and balance. It's kind of a "rest" week because the moves aren't as intense. It's essentially prepping you for month 2 which gets EXTREMELY more difficult.

You can't do rigorous workouts like this and keep your  normal diet. Some think that they can, but trust me.. you can't. One of the hardest things about this program is that I need to eat 5 times a day (roughly every 4 hours) to make sure my  body has energy and fuel. So you're thinking: Eating every 4 hours? HECK YA I COULD DO THAT! But let me stop you there.. even though this sounds like a fat kids dream, it's hard. Having to be extra picky at restaurants, looking at the ingredients in processed foods, watching your calorie intake, having friends bring you cookies and you watch your husband eat them all ( ok all but one), resisting those pizza cravings and on and on and on.. but I still have to eat.. so what do I eat? Well my diet consists of this on a regular basis: Egg sandwiches (two scrambled eggs, a piece of cheese, a piece of ham and two slices of bread), regular sandwiches, fruit, protein bars, pasta, chicken, red meat, vegetables (love those peas.. mmmm) and Shakeology (see a video here ). I try to limit my sweets but lets face it.. what girl doesn't love chocolate? So I just try to be smart about it. I have fat free chocolate pudding cups that every once in a while I'll have. I love getting Cliff Bars because they have chocolate flavors, but are good for you! And just like everyone else in my small town, sometimes I get frozen yogurt. But again, I try to be really smart about what I eat.

My husband is really good at keeping me on track. I'll say "Man that pizza commercial makes me REALLY want pizza.." and he says "You don't want pizza! You want ___" and he fills in the blank with a better option and  usually that's what I eat!

I'm sure you're wondering: Becca, have you seen changes/improvements??

Let me tell you this: YES! Though they may not be what most expect. I have TONS more energy, my relationship with my husband is better, I don't feel so self conscious sitting on his lap or when he picks me up, I don't dread getting dressed everyday, I can look at myself in the mirror and smile, I feel good about myself and a whole lot of other things, including my clothes starting to get baggy.

I'm half way through and month 2 I know is going to be difficult, but I've committed myself to doing it, and so I'm going to finish.

This is so much more then "being skinny." This is about being healthy, being able to hold my future grand-babies, being able to try new things and more.

Shawn T. has seriously changed my life and I'm so grateful he and the team at Beach Body put together this at home exercise program.

Because of Insanity, I'm a better wife, a better friend, and a better person.

Thursday, May 2, 2013

May -- Already?

So in my last post, I said that I was going to try to post weekly...... let's be real, that's probably never going to happen.

Ever.

But, I can try right? So as my friend Lauren said: That feeling you get when you haven't posted in a while and you don't know where to begin...

That's where I'm at right now. 

First of all though, I wish there were buds like this here! 

So, let's see. Well, Dalin and I are still in Rexburg and it's pretty great! I really want summer to come, but mother nature doesn't seem to agree with me. Though, when it does come, I may find myself taking time off of work to enjoy it! (I have a vicious golf habit)

Dalin got through Winter semester will flying colors! We went out to dinner to celebrate him passing his incredibly difficult math class with a B! 

Now Spring semester has started and his classes are a little easier but he's added some responsibilities that keep him away longer...

He started tutoring. He tutors in the Linux lab (tutoring for computer engineering) and it keeps him away until 6 or 7 in the evening. When he comes home, he has homework - of course - sometimes late into the morning. 

It's a little (and I actually mean a lot) disheartening when I have to go to bed alone...

I've added some hobbies to my life though to keep me busy when he's away! I'm now on the Madison County Centennial Council! It's SO much fun! I love event planning and I am seriously so excited for all of our upcoming events! 

In addition to that, I've started babysitting people's kids- for free! (I have to kick my baby cravings somehow - and usually by the end of the night, I'm ready to give the kid back.)

We're looking into getting a dog! It's a LOT of money to have a dog at our apartment complex, but Dalin and I think it will be WELL worth it! 

That's just an update on us! Thanks for reading!

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Degree, Marriage and Career!

So, this new year I have a goal of blogging once a week! This is going to be exciting! In the month of December, I graduated from BYU-Idaho with my Bachelors in Communication AND got married!

After our marriage on December 15, we went on a honeymoon to Vegas! My oh my what an adventure! We had a fantastic view of the Paris' Eiffel Tower and the Belagio fountains!

After that we made the drive from Vegas to Washington for our second reception. We drove about 2,000 miles and it was quite the drive! Well, I watched movies most of the time, Dalin did all of the driving. :) He's a good husband!

We drove back to Rexburg on New Year's Eve, moved in (sort of) and rang in the new year with Martinelli's in paper cups!

Within one month I started a new job at BMG Rental. I'm really, really enjoying it! I've been here a total of 3 days! Wahoo!

Dalin is doing well in school and is enjoying his classes!

Here are some pictures for your eyes to enjoy!

  



Tuesday, October 30, 2012

A Temple Wedding!



Ok, so I know I haven't posted in a while. I'm still pretty new to this blog thing, but hopefully I'll be able to do it about once a week or so!

For those who don't know, I'm ENGAGED and I have been for a little bit! Haha. We're having a wedding in December and my OH my is there so much to do!

My lovely fiance's name is Dalin and he's my best friend! We love legos, board games, How I Met Your Mother, Sandwiches, and of course, each other.

I'm SUPER excited to be getting married! This is really one of the best feelings ever! Oh and I get to decorate! Woo! I do love decorating.

It's been a pretty crazy experience planning a wedding in the Temple. Most of my family are not members of the church while most of Dalin's (if not all) is. We've decided not to do a ring ceremony and to simple have a reception where our friends and family can celebrate with us.

My Mom (who isn't a member) at first had a really hard time not being able to see me "actually" get married. After a couple of loving conversations, she now understands and is completely supportive. She has gone out of her way to help me plan my reception and has been a LIFE saver in many instances. She helps me keep my head on. Haha!

With Dalin and I getting married in the Temple, I've had a lot of friends ask me why I'm not getting married in a regular church. It's been a great opportunity to share the Gospel of Jesus Christ with them and to explain how sacred Temples are. I've even had the opportunity to send a couple of Book's of Mormon.

To those who want to know more about the Temples Mormon's go into, I invite you to watch this video. It's a little long, but you will really learn why we have them and why they are so dear to us.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vGN9Mg-KnMY

Stay tuned for more little moments and leave your comments!

Thursday, September 13, 2012

When I become the boss...

I know that this will be the second post for the day. The end. Moving on. :)

My teacher challenged us in class to ponder about some important topics/questions this week and I'd like to share my thoughts and answers concerning those topics and questions.

When I become the boss, I will do these things

  • I will listen to my employees' ideas
  • I will meet with my employees regularly
  • I will ask how I can aid them in their job
  • I will openly ask for constructive suggestions for improvement
  • I will host a yearly company campout that provides interpersonal and teamwork training
  • I will work hard
  • I will ask questions to clarify
  • I will work as a team
  • I will keep my commitments and promises
  • I will be honest and conduct myself in a way that does not embarrass the company
When I become the boss, I will not do these things

  • I will not be quick to blame
  • I will not assume
  • I will not be rash with my decisions
  • I will not embarrass the company with my personal conduct
  • I will not put my employees integrity in jeopardy
  • I will not ask an employee something that I myself would not be willing to do
  • I will not act independently
  • I will not criticize an employee in front of others
Another topic that my professor talked about was the difference between successful and unsuccessful people. I would say that the biggest difference is that successful people do. They take initiative. Now, that doesn't mean that they are ruthless and do whatever it takes to get what they want. But they are not passive. They act. They take the lead and bring others with them. 

An interesting thought: It doesn't matter how you feel, it matters what is right. (Just think about that.)

I find it very interesting that many people do not take the time to think about any of these things. Let's be real, I didn't take time to think about these either. I am now and I'm surprised and excited for the things that I am learning. 

Leave your comments! I'd love to hear what you guys think, especially if you have a different opinion. :)